1:1 Coaching with Tara

Your journey to a more fulfilling, connected, and confident intimate life starts here.

Whether you're exploring new territory, reigniting a spark, or navigating challenges in your relationship, personalized coaching gives you the safe, judgment-free space you deserve.

I've helped individuals and couples break through barriers around intimacy, communication, and desire — and I'd love to help you too.

Choose the coaching package that feels right for where you are right now. No pressure. Just possibility.
What To Expect in Coaching

We will take the time to get to know one another - Somatic Coaching is all about intimacy and connection. We will collaborate to create a "relationship lab"; a safe, fun, and effective space where you get to explore, play with, and experience exercises related to your goals. You will have the opportunity to reflect on challenges, desires, and even taboo topics within this "lab" through experiential practices. Throughout this process, we will explore what you want to achieve and why it matters to you. 

*Yes, Safe Spice Coaching is experiential - we will practice skills (i.e., boundary setting, desire exploration, relationship repair, etc.) during the session, interrelationally (between coach and client). However, it is important to note that boundaries within this coaching method are as follows: both coach and client(s) are fully-clothed at all times.

Why 1:1 Coaching?

Group programs are great — but sometimes you need a space that's entirely yours. A space where you can be fully honest, fully vulnerable, and fully supported without worrying about anyone else in the room.

In our private sessions together, we'll go deep into what's really going on beneath the surface. We'll uncover the patterns, beliefs, and blocks that are keeping you from the intimacy and connection you crave — and we'll create a clear, actionable path forward that honors who you are and what you truly want.

This isn't cookie-cutter advice. This is your roadmap, built around your life, your relationship, and your desires.

Choose Your Experience

Three ways to work with me — pick the one that matches your comfort level.
Explore

"The First Date"

1 Session

✦ One 60-minute private coaching session
✦ A safe space to explore what's on your mind
✦ Personalized insights and next steps
✦ Perfect for dipping your toes in
Popular
Go Deeper

"The Threesome"

3 Sessions

✦ Three 60-minute private coaching sessions
✦ Deeper exploration of patterns and blocks
✦ Customized action plan between sessions
✦ Email support between sessions
✦ Ideal for focused transformation
All In

"The Commitment"

6 Sessions

✦ Six 60-minute private coaching sessions
✦ Comprehensive intimacy & relationship roadmap
✦ Priority email support between sessions
✦ Personalized resources and exercises
✦ The deepest, most lasting transformation
What to Expect in Our Sessions
Every coaching session is a sacred, confidential space designed around you. Here's what our work together looks like:

🔥 Honest Exploration — We'll get to the heart of what's really going on in your intimate life. No topic is off-limits, and there is zero judgment here.

🔥 Pattern Recognition — Together, we'll identify the beliefs, habits, and dynamics that may be holding you back from the connection and pleasure you desire.

🔥 Practical Tools — You'll walk away from every session with concrete exercises, communication strategies, and mindset shifts you can put into practice immediately.

🔥 Empowered Action — This isn't just talk therapy. We create momentum. You'll feel more confident, more connected, and more alive after each session.

Ready to explore what's possible?

Let's find the right fit for you. Click below to get started:



Frequently Asked Questions

Who is 1:1 coaching for?
My coaching is for anyone who wants to deepen their intimate life — whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between. If you're feeling stuck, disconnected, curious, or ready for more, this is for you. All genders, orientations, and relationship structures are welcome.
How do I know which package is right for me?
If you're curious but not sure yet, start with "The First Date" — one session to see how we work together. If you have a specific challenge you want to work through, "The Threesome" gives us the space to go deeper. And if you're ready for real, lasting change, "The Commitment" is where the magic happens. Not sure? Reach out and we'll figure it out together.
Are sessions confidential?
Absolutely. Everything we discuss stays between us. Your privacy and safety are my top priorities. This is a judgment-free zone — always.
How are sessions conducted?
All sessions are held virtually via secure video call, so you can connect from the comfort and privacy of your own space — wherever you are in the world.
Can I bring my partner to a session?
Yes! While these packages are designed for individual coaching, partners are welcome to join if it serves your goals. Just let me know ahead of time so we can make the most of our time together.
Tara Kubik

Meet Tara

Hi, I'm Tara — founder of Safe Spice Coaching LLC. I believe that everyone deserves a fulfilling, joyful, and deeply connected intimate life.

My approach is trauma-empowered, authentic, and completely non-judgmental. My personality is a mix of playful, humorous, and sometimes blunt with *colorful* language.  I create a safe container where you, too, can be fully yourself — messy, curious, scared, excited, all of it. Together, we'll untangle what's been holding you back and build a path toward the intimacy and connection you truly want.

I can't wait to meet you.
Coming Soon

Mini-Courses Are on the Way! 🎉

Can't commit to 1:1 coaching just yet? No worries. I'm creating bite-sized, self-paced mini-courses designed to help you explore intimacy, communication, and desire on your own terms. Stay tuned — they're coming soon!